Novice mother discussed the mother's milk feeds the erroneous zone

I in the magazine sponsor the mother's milk in "Parents" to feed the column to have 8 months,in some nurtures in the website to manage the mother's milk to feed the main page also to have half year,the visit rate already broke through 10,000 people,answered several hundred questions. Turns head has a look,already repeatedly said regarding the milk secretion truth and the operating procedure innumerably,but still had some mothers to tell me,regardless of how deferred to my instruction to do,their milk was the insufficient baby eats,the baby was wants to cry,but they had to increase the powdered milk,how long had more than enough,their milk has done,the mother's milk fed announces the defeat in light of this. Aunt

novice discussed the mother's milk feeds erroneous zone

Looks over these mothers the message,i discover some similarities:

1,they at the beginning of nursing,all have experienced under the milk difficulty generally;

2,saw their " does not have the " milk,the child hungrily to cry straight,the family member (is generally child's grandmother or paternal grandmother) intervenes,feeds the powdered milk directly for the child;

3,even if the milk secretion is normal,after still could appear nurses the child to cry the noisy situation,the family member then said this was because Aunt's milk " insufficient ",or was milk " not good ",the child has not eaten to the full,continues to increase the powdered milk for the child;

4,some baby sleep time is not long,12 hours awake,some baby's body weight growth were inferior other babies are swift and violent,these are blamed all to the mother's milk quality in,not only the family member,some doctors all advises mother not to have to continue to nurse,changes feeds the powdered milk;

5,after these babies each time finished eating the mother's milk,all can again eat some powdered milk,has not been eaten to the full by everybody judgment for the female milk,needs the powdered milk. If the mother did not advocate fed the powdered milk,the family member can criticize her is the hungry baby. Under such pressure,also because does not have the experience,in the heart does not have the bottom,mothers have submitted to,has fed the powdered milk,thus causes the mother's milk true secretion insufficiency.

The insistence mother's milk feeds,sometimes is an exceptionally difficult matter. The most major difficulty,does not lie in the milk secretion insufficiency actually,is other factor disturbance on the contrary,comes from especially the outside pressure. The biggest disturbance and the pressure,come from in some feed regarding the mother's milk have the very deep misunderstanding family member or obsolescence of knowledge doctor.

China has the old person to help to look after the third generation the tradition,regarding newborn's nursing,feeds is the most important active content.But if the mother chooses feeds the mother's milk,each time feeds needs baby's mother participation merely,will remove inevitably other people in outside.

Some kinds of group life insurance felt oneself " heroic non-opportunity ",felt is restless and is anxious,thus can hold the difficulty and the question which the mother's milk feeds can produce from the very beginning,its exaggeration,attempts to stop unintentionally the mother to feed the mother's milk aspect to carry on diligently. They often obviously knew the mother's milk feeds the huge advantage,the heart of hearts quietly hoped actually the child eats the powdered milk,because they can feed like this for the child contribute an own strength.

Old person's mood we no doubt can understand,but their behavior has the very big destructive power actually. Because of them status and the authority,novice mothers often under the pressure,do not dare to defy,increases the powdered milk hurriedly,breeds the evil consequence: The child appears " easily nipple illusion ",the deviation in to obtain the Breast milk milk bottle,is not willing to take the trouble the suction mother's milk,even rejects the nipple; Suction frequency depression,causes the milk secretion to drop suddenly,finally really did not have the milk.

Moreover,because novice mother does not have the experience,easy to be partial some old person's old idea,for instance a mother told me,her does not want to add the powdered milk to the child,in the family the old person accuses her to be able child " hungry thin intestines ". This is one kind of unscientific truth view,can have the enough pressure actually,lets mother submit. Old person's saying this and that,can let mother in the heart produce anxious,this anxious mood produces the hormone,causes mother's body even if has the sumptuous milk,cannot secrete actually. More is the worry,the worry,the afraid mother,the milk secretion more has the difficulty.

The mother's milk is most innocent,most treats actually. The people the prejudice are extremely grave to the mother's milk,regardless of how problem

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